BATTLE OF THE SEXES 100

I had a very interesting conversation yester night with my house mates. It was on the male/female issue - call it battle of the sexes if you wish (Most of them are guys by the way, so, it was not a fair spread).

These are some of the points that were raised by the guys in the house:

• Every guy has a huge ego that if massaged works wonders but if bruised constantly on the other hand would evoke a negative reaction no matter how “good” the guy is.

• Guys are routine creatures, they do almost the same thing over time.

- Women always try to change men when they are dating or married because they consider what the man does regularly (an example was football or hanging out with friends) competition

• Women ALWAYS have an agenda. They just don’t do things for the sake of it

• Women are very horrible with power, whenever a woman is seemingly more powerful than her husband or richer. She develops an attitude and becomes almost saucy

• Women should not marry fresh out of school because they would not have enough experience to last them their marital life and would hence tend to misbehave within the confines of marriage

The ladies had some things to say and I have my own point of view too. I will continue with the female point of view tomorrow but meanwhile, guys and ladies, let me have your views and opinions on this.

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Anonymous said…
That's real cool. You sound like a real Africa lady. Thank God that we still have you as we can sure make more authentic Africans ladies mas from your gene.
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